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When signing up, I'd meet them for a coffee, get a better understanding of their personalities in order to consider who they'd be best matched with. The usual lists cropped up time and time again, height and income high on the list of requirements for women - for men, age and, you guessed it, weight.
Sad to say that, the vast majority of men who I spoke to who were single and ready to date, refused to date 'fat girls'.
Similarly, people subconsciously associate bigger women with being lazy and lacking in self-pride and thinner women as being active and more conscious of their appearance. Who doesn't know at least one person who contradicts these stereotypes - a thin friend who lives on junk food or a 'fat' friend who smashes the gym, has great skin, perfect proportions and not an inch of cellulite on her (yes, I know at least three women like this) There is no hard and fast rules to what constitutes being attractive - and whilst Im not suggesting that men should be obligated to find all shapes and sizes attractive, my one golden nuggets of advice to men who write off women before they've met them, be it online, via a blind date or through an agency is grow up a bit when it comes to stats on a piece of paper.
As a fat woman, I've experienced the extreme shallowness that exists in our society.
The sexiness men perceive is my being comfortable in my own skin and my ability to retain my mystery.
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Not because they necessarily, have better bodies (although some of them actually did - bigger but fitter and far more in proportion) but because they what they have. It isn't at the forefront of their mind or something they consider to be a hinderance in life. Big girls don't make trophy wives - or so the media would have us believe.But my favorite magazine, by far, for the past 20 years has to be Esquire. From my 20’s to mid-30’s, I was never once called beautiful. But most men did like my eyes, even though I’m not crazy about them since my eyelashes are so thin as to be non-existent. However from my mid-30’s to now (mid-40’s) – I’ve been called sexy by both young and old and even “beautiful”. Retain your mystery and you’ll instantly up your sexiness quotient. Oh, and that, in the long-term, sexiness has nothing to do with physical attributes and everything to do with personality.Some disguised it as 'preferring girls to be fit' or 'wanting them to be in proportion' but we all knows what that means - find me skinny.Ironic given that, if you ask most men to pick out a girl who's a size 14 they'd probably point at a dress size 22 - brainwashed by the media to think that anything over a size 10 is plus size and quite in the dark about what real sizes look like on real women.